Our Future Looks Rosy, Remote, Revolutionary

A decade from now, our lives will be simply more enjoyable, more friendly, more pleasant completely independent of any change or increase in income of material wealth. Do you think I’m overly optimistic?

There have been so many sociological shifts from COVID. Among the most fascinating to me is the reversal of the centuries old rural to urban migration. Prior to COVID, more than 80% of the world’s population lived in metropolitan areas. While the reversal has only just begun, it will be interesting to see the residential preferences of people who can remote work and don’t need to crowd into urban areas.

First, let’s put RTO to bed.  “Return-to-office died in ‘23,” said Nick Bloom, an economics professor at Stanford University and work-from-home expert.  Yes, large companies like Meta and Zoom made headlines by ordering workers back to the office. But, Bloom said, just as many other companies were quietly reducing office attendance to cut costs.  https://www.usatoday.com/story/money/2023/12/21/remote-work-from-home-trends-2024/71991203007/

In addition to the fact that it’s cheaper for companies not to pay for office space, heating and cooling, Internet and electricity, remote workers report being happier and workers report they are more interested in remote work than in a raise. https://stackoverflow.blog/2023/11/27/are-remote-workers-more-productive-that-s-the-wrong-question/

The demand pull for remote work is going to put increased pressure on companies looking for talent. Where corporations can, they will be pushed to convert positions to remote work eligible over the coming decade. Some 40% of the current jobs can be done from home. https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2023/05/23/post-poll-remote-work-hybrid-future/ The COVID surge followed by the slower, but continuing trend for remote positions, will free people up to move away from the metropolitan areas. 

Nearly 83 percent of the U.S. population lived in an urban area in 2020, and that number was expected to reach nearly 90 percent by 2050, https://www.statista.com/topics/7313/metropolitan-areas-in-the-us/#:~:text=Nearly%2083%20percent%20of%20the,nearly%2090%20percent%20by%202050.

But wait.

The data showed more residents moved out of the Golden State than into it in 2023, with 58% of California moves being outbound in 2023. California saw its first-ever population decline in 2020 when the state imposed rigid lockdowns during the COVID-19 pandemic. Housing prices are falling in cities like Phoenix, Pittsburg, Salt Lake City, San Francisco, New York City, Austin, Texas and Chicago where people are moving out toward areas with cheaper costs of living. https://www.gobankingrates.com/investing/real-estate/cities-where-home-prices-are-falling-most-this-year/ 

“Connecticut is gaining a huge bonus from the remote work and the pandemic flight from New York City,” says Dowell Myers, a professor and director of the Population Dynamics Research Group at the University of Southern California. 

Some people leaving concentrated areas are moving to traditional retirement states like Arizona and Florida for the year round summer experience. But many are moving to states that aren’t known for their metropolitan centers including North and South Carolina, North Dakota, Montana, Oklahoma and Idaho.

But the service industry still exists. Even though computer programmers, project managers and accountants can do their jobs from anywhere, people working in retail and service industries still have to go to brick and mortar locations. However, the services will have to follow the migrant herds leaving the cities and going to the outback of Montana. So even those jobs will be exiting the populated centers, albeit slowly. 

How will all these changes impact the social fabric of our country? 

People in cities often ignore each other, but people in the country greet each other. This sociological change may be amplified by the sitting-is-the-new-smoking reality. Remote working office etiquette will change. One possibility is that meetings can be labeled screen visibility required meaning the participants will be best served by sitting at a screen. But more abstract theoretical discussion meetings will be labeled “walk-friendly.”  Since remote workers on discussion meetings can and will walk around their neighborhood, we’ll see a renaissance of the local community. We’ll have an increased ability to recognize our neighbors. 

The homeschooling trend that started with COVID will continue to increase both because parents are in the house remote working so they can provide security, such as calling 911 if there were an emergency, and because a new industry is growing up around the new demand for homeschooling. Online live or webapp courses will allow elementary, middle and high school students to study what they want, when they want and as long as they can show sufficient progress that parents can focus on remote work, kids will get more autonomy, mastery and purpose. 

https://www.washingtonpost.com/education/interactive/2023/homeschooling-growth-data-by-district/

School will become a series of day camps and activities like Singapore Math classes, Mathnasium and Coding camps, focused on interactive and entertaining activities as well as educational activities because the students have a say in what they are being taught and how and they can vote with their feet.

The dictatorship of being involuntarily committed to a particular school district and classroom based on a zip code will be replaced with choice.  Consumer choice has been a trend in the U.S. starting in the 1920s as documented in Jason Voiovich’s Booze, Babe and the Little Black Dress, but elementary education has so far managed to escape the conversion of choice. Not any more. The rise of homeschooling and unschooling is doing more than private schools or charter schools ever could. 

Backyard vegetable gardens, raising chickens and mason bees have all received a surge as a result of the remote work move. People who are at home and who are migrating to more remote locations with more space have the option of growing their own food. And they are both because it tastes good and because gardening is a great hobby. Homesteading YouTubers are making bank on this new trend with websites like “3 Mississippi” about a family that left San Diego to move to Houston … I mean Houston, MS and 30+ acre farm.

A decade from now, our lives will be simply more enjoyable, more friendly, more pleasant completely independent of any change or increase in income of material wealth.

Do you think I’m overly optimistic?

The future of education will be choice, characterized by an industry focused on live online or webapp courses and homeschooling local activities the way kids do sports activities now. There will be Singapore Math and coding camp and these will be the bulk of self selected courses for a significant number of American kids.

Solve For Happy: Notes for Myself

Solve for Happy

Chapter 1

Activity #1: Make your Happy List.

Activity #2: Try the Blank Brain Test. Find an unpleasant thought and focus on it. Then cause your mind to refocus by reading a few lines of text or blasting your favorite music or trying NOT to think about ice cream.

Chapter 2

Part 2: Chapters 4 through 8:

There are 6 grand illusions that keep you in confusion.

  1. Thought. The little voice in your head is not you.
  2. Self. Who are you?
  3. Knowledge
  4. Time
  5. Control
  6. Fear

Activity: Make a list of your fears

Part 3: Chapter 9

7 blind spots delude your judgement of life.

  1. Filters
  2. Assumptions
  3. Predictions
  4. Memories
  5. Labels
  6. Emotions
  7. Exaggeration

Part 4: Chapters 10 through 14

5 ultimate truths

Here and now

The Pendulum

Love

L.I.P

Who made who?

Solve for Happy

I’m listening to this amazing audiobook while walking through a shaded forest trail alone. I’m recovering from COVID. My husband and 7yo are playing in the creek. The author, Mo, haltingly describes the loss of his 21yo son, a university student. The story and his tone are heartbreaking.

Then he asks what makes me happy.

This, I thought. Listening to an audiobook while walking in the forest.

Watching the butterflies on the butterfly bush.

Taking photos of my mother in law’s garden.

Listening to my daughter laugh or seeing her smile.

Listening to my husband talk about his job with fascination and pride.

My daughter’s excitement today at finding a box turtle by the edge of the water.

What makes you happy?
Butterflies

Summer 2022 Springfield Spanish & 2 trips to Canada for kayaking, family

It’s wonderful that the summer is over and Vee is officially in 1st grade. During the summer, Vee went to Springfield for 5 weeks of immersion Spanish with Langokids. While there, we stayed with Vee’s friend J, went camping, watched the Independence Day fireworks, swam in the Atlantic waterpark in Bull Run Regional Park, and most importantly chased fireflies.

After Virginia, we drove to LaSalle, Canada where Vee met her uncle and aunts for the first time. After we returned home to Maryland for 3 weeks of STEM camp at Oakdale Recreation Center in Urbana, MD, we went back to Canada. This time to Mississauga, a suburb of Toronto for a week of Happy Mandarin Chinese reading day camp. While there, we visited the Egyptian Museum which has a special display of King Tut’s tomb. We also went kayaking for 3 days and on the 3rd day, Vee went solo!

National Aquarium in Baltimore
National Aquarium in Canada

Vee did 5 weeks of immersion Spanish at Lango Kids in Springfield and while there went swimming with her friends J and Xiang and went camping, including roasting hotdogs and catching fireflies.

Sky zone with Lango kids

Swimming at Atlantis Waterpark in Bull Run Regional Park, Virginia
Watching Independence Day fireworks in Manassas, Virginia
Vee meets her uncle and aunts in Windsor, Canada

Vee visits the Egyptian museum in Mississauga, Canada, a suburb of Toronto

Vee went kayaking on a lagoon fed by Lake Ontario three times and on the 3rd day, she went solo.

Visiting the national aquarium of Canada in Toronto

Over the summer, Vee started learning Japanese kana letters so she could read the names of her favorite snacks from the Asian markets.

Vee hit the Rattlewood driving range before school on her first day

The Point of a Pageant is Growing Great Girls

The great thing about doing a beauty pageant is raising your ideal of what a great person is.

Exhausted, I was running in the door after wrestling my 5yo out of one dress into another and as I came through the door, I saw this stunning young girl gliding in slow motion on the stage. She stopped and moved her head glacially slowly to her left. When her eyes were finally even with mine, I felt an electric jolt. It was like seeing the spark of the divine in another person or like she was showing me the face of God shining through her. The 2020 USA National Maryland Queen and mistress of ceremonies, Natalie Salmon said, “Let’s hear for Paris!” I suddenly realized this was Miya’s daughter, the mom who had helped me figure out where I was supposed to be and what clothes Vee was supposed to be in all weekend.

The 7-year-old Paris Courtney Titus was crowned this evening at the 2021 USA Miss Maryland Beauty Pageant in Solomons, MD.

I was not surprised when the 7-year-old Paris Courtney Titus was crowned this evening.

But I’m getting ahead of myself. Let’s start at the beginning. I’m a former enlisted Marine. I never wear makeup, jewelry or fingernail polish. I hated putting on dress uniforms in the military. I’m a forever in blue jeans girl. My daughter, however, LOVES skirts and dresses and a rainbow ruffle skirt has become her signature. She wears tutus to tennis practice. And did tae kwon do training an Elsa gown. She’s definitely got her own mind about everything. So she started talking about winning a crown in a beauty pageant, and I signed her up online for the USA Junior Miss Maryland Beauty Pageant. Then received a list of everything I needed to prepare. I panicked. I sent a note to the organizational email asking how to escape. Stef Williams wrote me back. She promised to coach me along all the steps and to my amazement, we made it.

As I explained to the reception desk at the Holiday Inn in Solomons, MD where the competition took place, “My daughter wants a crown.” But I wanted my daughter to learn respect, courtesy, poise and dignity. Their response was effusive. They told me how they hosted the Miss World a few years earlier and were stunned at the women they met. Doctors. Lawyers. Doctors without Borders. All with amazingly long lists of community service. All who seemed to set the bar higher for what it means to be a good citizens. “They were great women!” they told me enthusiastically.

Immediately upon arriving at the hotel Friday night, we were waiting to check in and we met Paris while waiting in line. I think it was pretty obvious that Vee and I were both a little overwhelmed. Paris chatted with Vee while waiting to check in. Then Kennedy Williams told me Vee needed to record a video. We’d been in the car in t-shirts for 2 hours. I asked if we could just go change. Kennedy said, sure, but fast. That would be the mantra for the weekend. Vee changed into a pink and silver mandarin Chinese dress and we ran back downstairs. Then she got her first of many bouts of stage fright. I asked her if she wanted to go home. She said no. Maybe we had signed on more than she could handle. After the show, Dad Bin Hu said, “Vee did better than me on stage.”

Kennedy spoke softly. Vee come with me. She took Vee’s hand and Vee followed her to the display. The 2015 Maryland Jr Teen coached Vee through a couple of takes on video. It was the first of many such coaching sessions from the woman Vee would come to call “my dance teacher.” No doubt, without Kennedy, Vee would never have made it on stage. Without her mom, Pageant Director Stef Williams, I would have never gotten us together to arrive. Both wonderful, supportive and encouraging women helping other girls and women and our society.

2015 USA Miss Maryland Junior Teen Kennedy Williams, the mistress of ceremonies and coordinator for the 2021 USA Miss Maryland Beauty Pageant.

https://fb.watch/45eOFj1g-h/

The girls had a pajama party the first night which Vee loved it so much, she couldn’t sleep until nearly midnight on Friday. The next morning, we were up early to get her hair done at 8:45 and get up to the interview panel at 10 a.m. Then lunch and change clothes and over to the photo shoot on the waterfront. Then rehearsals and we skipped the smores and pizza party because I was exhausted. Thankfully Saturday night Vee fell asleep before 9 and slept until after 8 a.m. Back up and at em with 8:30 show time for rehearsals again ending at 10 a.m. and then back to Sunny to do her hair. After the hair, we grabbed lunch at the hotel restaurant and got some encouragement from Clovis, our waitress. Back upstairs to the room to change and practice the dance routine a few times and then it was show time.

I’m frankly surprised Vee made it on stage, she was so terrified, but she got a lot of help and encouragement from the girls she was now calling friends. Including a lovely girl Karter Jeanette Akinseye. Vee complained to Karter that her own dresses were too plain. Karter offered to let Vee wear one of her gowns for the evening portion. I think Vee actually would have, but it was a size 6 and Vee was significantly smaller than her new found friends. Karter and her mom were wonderfully supportive and encouraging. Another great example of great people.

In addition to being stunned by such an amazingly wonderful group of girls, moms, queens and the team organizing the event, I was also stunned by the endurance, energy and ability to withstand discomfort. The seafront photo was super cold and the girls were all huddled together trying to stay warm, but no one wanted to leave. The 2020 USA National Maryland Queen Natalie Salmon wrapped a blanket around the younger girls while everyone was getting staged for the photo. Sunday started at 8:30 a.m. and we arrived home at 7 p.m., but Vee immediately announced she wanted to do another pageant. She did confess her feet hurt after the 1st day’s practice, and I encouraged her to wear tennis shoes for the 2nd day’s rehearsal. During the show’s intermission, the girls were visibly tired and the pageant team brought drapes so they could sit down without getting their gowns dirty and chairs. The girls passed the time playing rhythmic hand clapping games and genuinely seemed to be loving the experience. Honestly, the weekend compared remarkably similar to me as military training. Perhaps that shared dedication to resilience is what created the bond and camaraderie.

I tried to tell Vee over and over all weekend, it’s not the gown or the face that wins the pageant. It’s the person. She has to be kind and courteous, polite and respectful all the time. She has to be powerfully confident. There are a dozen more terms too abstract for my 5 year old to understand like poised and graceful. All of these abstract ideas came together in Paris Courtney Titus, Kennedy Williams, Karter Jeannette Akinseye, Ariana Skylar Ruiz, Janelle-Victoria Nyamekye Abu, Joanne Mabel Ashun, Nyah Rose Quezada, Nylah Jackson, Aniyah Nelson, and so many more girls and ladies.

It was the most excited I’ve ever seen my daughter. Not even Christmas or her birthday compared to her enthusiasm for being a part of the pageant. And my hope that she would find positive role models was delivered in dozens.  What an AMAZING weekend!

OKRs of Parenting: Raise a Child as a Democratic Asset

Objective: Raise an asset to global democracy
Key Results
Courage/Confidence – engage safely with mild fear, (iFly, ninja kids, pony riding – Starting Age 4), rock climbing, swimming
Citizenship – Eagle Scout (begin August, Age 5)
Concentration – Skeet Shooting at Prince George’s range (Age 11)
Bureaucracy – Civil Air Patrol (begin August, Age 12)
Critical Skills – foreign languages especially geo-politically important languages such as Chinese, Korean, Arabic, Russian and Farsi as well as world languages such as Spanish, French and English
Emotional Intelligence – not sure
Objectives are WHAT. They are significant, action oriented, they are inspiring.
Key Results are the HOW  – that how we meet our objectives. Good key results are specific and time bound, aggressive, but realistic. They are measurable and they’re verifiable.

https://www.ted.com/talks/john_doerr_why_the_secret_to_success_is_setting_the_right_goals#t-437645
     

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqjkKjtbmMr0fWfEHf6iVAw

Pretending to be a flamingo bird because they always stand on one leg.

iFly at age 4.

Coronavirus Decisions for a social 4yo in 2020

In March 2020, she didn’t seem to mind going to Wheaton or Patapsco Parks every afternoon to go walking with baba and nanai but as time wore on, it became obvious that her world of four people was too small for her.

It’s been a hard year.

Obviously, like everyone, we’ve been trying to make the best decisions for our family during the coronavirus chaos. We took our energetic and social 4yo out of preschool and all Prince George’s parks activities on March 5, 2020. Literally overnight, she was no longer in school everyday, no longer in gymnastics, dance, tae kwon do, soccer and we cancelled upcoming plans for swimming classes.

In the beginning, she didn’t seem to mind going to Wheaton or Patapsco Parks every afternoon to go walking with baba and nanai but as time wore on, it became obvious that her world of four people was too small for her.

For a time, even the pony riding class was cancelled by Montgomery County Parks Wheaton stables but when it reopened, we returned. We reasoned that outdoor activities were likely safer due to natural ventilation.

After months of asking to go to 6 Flags or other locations like that, we learned of a tae kwon do school near our home that included practice in a forested clearing across from their dojo building. We joined that school.

After some time, Prince George’s County parks advertised tennis classes. Since tennis is outside, we thought it might be a good option, but they failed to get enough students. I posted on Nextdoor looking for tennis and someone recommended JTCC. We checked it out. It’s not exactly outside. Six tennis courts are covered by something like a giant tent. It’s not sealed so some outside air gets in and it’s not climate controlled, but it’s at least dry when it rains. This seemed like a good option, so we tried it. She seems to love it.

Prince George’s County Parks program just recently posted indoor gymnastics beginning in March 2021. I asked my husband and he said we should wait until Grandma gets her vaccination. It’s a good idea. Gymnastics, obviously, is indoors.

Ice skating is indoors, but they do not allow instructors to contact students, so all students under age 6 must have a parent on the ice. The Wheaton indoor ice rink is huge and they only allow a handful of students per class.

I’ve been thinking a lot about Scouts because I think she’d love it. She’ll be eligible to join in August 2021. I just discovered Prince George’s Parks Program has a skeet range with classes starting at age 11. Shooting skeet is an outdoor activity, but of course, it will be another 6 years before she’s eligible. I wonder what our lives will look it in six years vis-à-vis the coronavirus. http://pgparks.com/1283/Trap-Skeet

Despite her young age, she had done surprisingly well with online school. She is 100% online this year in PreK. While dad feels frustrated keeping her focused on some days, there are days when she’s fascinated by what’s happening on her computer screen. Her education seems to have grown by leaps and bounds. Dad is a major factor since his work is property management and it gives him time to take her out to nearby parks during the school breaks. She gets to run in the sun and burn some energy, which is critical to her ability to be calm during class.

It’s been a hard year.

We want to keep our family safe, especially since grandma is in her 70s and our daughter has clearly suffered in 2020 from the lack of access to her peers. She constantly asks us to play with her. She wants to play LEGOs, board games, chess, tag, hide and seek. One day during the Christmas/New Year’s school break, I counted over 20 times she asked me to play with her while I was teleworking.

There will be no vaccine for 5yos in 2021. There’s hope by the time the 2021/2022 school year rolls around that 12yos and up will have a vaccine allowing high school students to return to a relatively normal experience attending school in a public location.

Our school has recommended that our daughter test to see if they can get state approval for her to skip kindergarten and start 1st grade in August 2021. Her English language skills according to IXL are in the second grade range. I guess she won’t be able to start normal school until 2022.

It’s been a hard year.

My husband, an ordinary Chinese citizen, started a vlog about his life in the USA

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqjkKjtbmMr0fWfEHf6iVAw

Poor Lao Beijing Baba life in USA

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqjkKjtbmMr0fWfEHf6iVAw

My Beijing born husband and our Texas born daughter.

Food Diversity – Gluten free for everyone

Maybe what matters most eating a larger diversity of different foods to improve the microbiome.

Several months ago, our 4yo started complaining of tummy aches. As time went on they got worse and more frequent and we tried a number of options at home to remedy the situation. I thought maybe she had acid reflux so I tried to get her to sleep with a tallish pillow to elevate her. We tried to avoid orange juice and other acidic foods under the same premise.

Finally, she refused to play because of stomach pain so we went to urgent care. The doctor said it could be a gluten issue, so we cut all gluten and ignored the acidic food. Orange juice did not make it worse. Cutting speghettios and shells and cheese made it better.

Several more trips to doctors and a Celiac Disease test, she tested negative. But there was the indisputable fact that she felt better when she wasn’t eating as much gluten. Doctors stressed that if you are going to go gluten free, go all the way, but … Grandma Huang cooks homemade Chinese dumplings and noodle dishes from standard white flour and our daughter LOVES them. And she ate some. And nothing happened.

What we know about the microbiome is that a diversity, a broad range of different foods is best for our digestive systems. However, the industrial complex overtook American farming as well as all other types of manufacturing and now just like the original Ford which you could get in any color as long as it was black, our food diversity has been sharply curtailed.

With the mass production of wheat, we can have wheat-based pancakes for breakfast, wheat based sandwiches or hamburger buns or hotdog buns for lunch and wheat based breaded foods for dinner like chicken nuggets or fish sticks. Wheat based breakfast cereal. Wheat. Wheat. And more Wheat. Not that wheat is a bad grain, but I’ve begun to wonder if what helped my daughter’s stomach move on wasn’t so much the elimination of wheat or gluten as it was the increase in diversity of grains from adding lots of gluten free products to her diet. Gluten free products are made from all kinds of different cereals and grains. Maybe we should all add a little gluten free to our diets. Like the Gluten free Dr. Schar bagel slide I just ate. Delish.

Maybe what matters most is eating a large diversity of different foods to improve the microbiome

Electrical Safety

New electrical options like USB ports on outlets, USB small electrics, LED lights and solar powered items are making our homes safer.

With a 4yo around the house, I worry a lot about electrocution. Classic electrical outlets have a fundamental design flaw in which if anyone or thing were to touch both of the prongs when they were halfway into the outlet, it could go horribly wrong.

Furthermore, when I was working for USACE, DisastersRUs, I did a lot of reading about what goes horribly wrong during floods and other water related disasters like storm surge. As it turns out, good Samaritans who try to help people by slogging around in the waters, can and sometimes do get electrocuted by electrical currents from nearby houses.

And, of course, with traditional electrical home systems, there has been the possibility of home fires due to electrical shorts. Home electrical fires account for an estimated 51,000 fires each year, nearly than 500 deaths, more than 1,400 injuries, and $1.3 billion in property damage. Electrical distribution systems are the third leading cause of home structure fires.

https://www.esfi.org/resource/home-electrical-fires-184#

Electricity is scary. Especially with kids who don’t understand the risks. So as my daughter and I were stringing blinking Christmas lights on the trees, playground toys and fence in the backyard, I was happy the lights were solar powered. With a full days’ sunlight, they are colorful, but by morning, they are dim and if it rains all day, they hardly come on at night. I’m not an electrical engineer, but I assume the 4″ x 4″ solar panel connected to each strand wouldn’t be able to collect enough power to kill me or my daughter.

https://www.bobvila.com/articles/best-string-lights/

One of the advantages to modern Christmas lights is they are usually LED, especially the solar powered version, so , a 100-count string of incandescent mini lights runs at 40 watts, while a 70 count of 5mm Wide Angle LEDs is approximately 4.8 watts total. 

https://www.christmaslightsetc.com/pages/how-much-power.htm

Offhand it would seem that a shock of 10,000 volts would be more deadly than 100 volts. But this is not so! Individuals have been electrocuted by appliances using ordinary house currents of 110 volts and by electrical apparatus in industry using as little as 42 volts direct current. The real measure of shock’s intensity lies in the amount of current (amperes) forced though the body, and not the voltage. Any electrical device used on a house wiring circuit can, under certain conditions, transmit a fatal current.

https://www.asc.ohio-state.edu/physics/p616/safety/fatal_current.html

I can’t even find a reference for how much amps in a string of LED Christmas lights but it’s in the range of 3 volts. Literally like nothing. A single lemon produces about 7/10 of a volt of electricity. If you connected two lemons together, you can power an inexpensive digital watch (uses about 1.5 volts). That’s funny, so the solar powered Christmas lights my 4yo was stringing up have about as much electricity as 4 lemons.

http://www.reachoutmichigan.org/funexperiments/agesubject/lessons/energy/lemon.html

I love these electric outlets and we have had them installed throughout both our houses. They have USB ports on either side of the outlet. We have also installed a couple of outlets that have just a set of 4 USB ports and no classic outlets at all. So many new electrical devices from clocks to smart speakers, children’s night lights and other small electrics are arriving with USB cables that an increasing number of devices don’t need the standard pronged outlet.

What I love about USB ports both in the home and in the car is that I feel pretty comfortable letting my 4yo plug in the cable for her iPad. According to the Apple website, “It is totally safe. A Lightning Cable is like a powered USB. In the worst case (an iPad), it’s 5 V (and 12 W), far from enough for damaging your children.”

https://apple.stackexchange.com/questions/233673/is-the-lightning-connector-safe-for-my-children

I like the new electrical options because I think they are safer for children, safer in floods and less likely to be responsible for home fires. In short, I think in the future, we’ll see less human fatalities related to electricity. I’m hopeful. But what I’d love to see is legislation requiring the safer USB ports in new home construction and requiring small electrical devices to have USB cables if it can sufficiently power them.