The new DOD Public Web Guide is live. https://www.publicweb.dma.mil/Guide/
Asides
The Point of a Pageant is Growing Great Girls
The great thing about doing a beauty pageant is raising your ideal of what a great person is.
Exhausted, I was running in the door after wrestling my 5yo out of one dress into another and as I came through the door, I saw this stunning young girl gliding in slow motion on the stage. She stopped and moved her head glacially slowly to her left. When her eyes were finally even with mine, I felt an electric jolt. It was like seeing the spark of the divine in another person or like she was showing me the face of God shining through her. The 2020 USA National Maryland Queen and mistress of ceremonies, Natalie Salmon said, “Let’s hear for Paris!” I suddenly realized this was Miya’s daughter, the mom who had helped me figure out where I was supposed to be and what clothes Vee was supposed to be in all weekend.
I was not surprised when the 7-year-old Paris Courtney Titus was crowned this evening.
But I’m getting ahead of myself. Let’s start at the beginning. I’m a former enlisted Marine. I never wear makeup, jewelry or fingernail polish. I hated putting on dress uniforms in the military. I’m a forever in blue jeans girl. My daughter, however, LOVES skirts and dresses and a rainbow ruffle skirt has become her signature. She wears tutus to tennis practice. And did tae kwon do training an Elsa gown. She’s definitely got her own mind about everything. So she started talking about winning a crown in a beauty pageant, and I signed her up online for the USA Junior Miss Maryland Beauty Pageant. Then received a list of everything I needed to prepare. I panicked. I sent a note to the organizational email asking how to escape. Stef Williams wrote me back. She promised to coach me along all the steps and to my amazement, we made it.
As I explained to the reception desk at the Holiday Inn in Solomons, MD where the competition took place, “My daughter wants a crown.” But I wanted my daughter to learn respect, courtesy, poise and dignity. Their response was effusive. They told me how they hosted the Miss World a few years earlier and were stunned at the women they met. Doctors. Lawyers. Doctors without Borders. All with amazingly long lists of community service. All who seemed to set the bar higher for what it means to be a good citizens. “They were great women!” they told me enthusiastically.
Immediately upon arriving at the hotel Friday night, we were waiting to check in and we met Paris while waiting in line. I think it was pretty obvious that Vee and I were both a little overwhelmed. Paris chatted with Vee while waiting to check in. Then Kennedy Williams told me Vee needed to record a video. We’d been in the car in t-shirts for 2 hours. I asked if we could just go change. Kennedy said, sure, but fast. That would be the mantra for the weekend. Vee changed into a pink and silver mandarin Chinese dress and we ran back downstairs. Then she got her first of many bouts of stage fright. I asked her if she wanted to go home. She said no. Maybe we had signed on more than she could handle. After the show, Dad Bin Hu said, “Vee did better than me on stage.”
Kennedy spoke softly. Vee come with me. She took Vee’s hand and Vee followed her to the display. The 2015 Maryland Jr Teen coached Vee through a couple of takes on video. It was the first of many such coaching sessions from the woman Vee would come to call “my dance teacher.” No doubt, without Kennedy, Vee would never have made it on stage. Without her mom, Pageant Director Stef Williams, I would have never gotten us together to arrive. Both wonderful, supportive and encouraging women helping other girls and women and our society.

The girls had a pajama party the first night which Vee loved it so much, she couldn’t sleep until nearly midnight on Friday. The next morning, we were up early to get her hair done at 8:45 and get up to the interview panel at 10 a.m. Then lunch and change clothes and over to the photo shoot on the waterfront. Then rehearsals and we skipped the smores and pizza party because I was exhausted. Thankfully Saturday night Vee fell asleep before 9 and slept until after 8 a.m. Back up and at em with 8:30 show time for rehearsals again ending at 10 a.m. and then back to Sunny to do her hair. After the hair, we grabbed lunch at the hotel restaurant and got some encouragement from Clovis, our waitress. Back upstairs to the room to change and practice the dance routine a few times and then it was show time.
I’m frankly surprised Vee made it on stage, she was so terrified, but she got a lot of help and encouragement from the girls she was now calling friends. Including a lovely girl Karter Jeanette Akinseye. Vee complained to Karter that her own dresses were too plain. Karter offered to let Vee wear one of her gowns for the evening portion. I think Vee actually would have, but it was a size 6 and Vee was significantly smaller than her new found friends. Karter and her mom were wonderfully supportive and encouraging. Another great example of great people.
In addition to being stunned by such an amazingly wonderful group of girls, moms, queens and the team organizing the event, I was also stunned by the endurance, energy and ability to withstand discomfort. The seafront photo was super cold and the girls were all huddled together trying to stay warm, but no one wanted to leave. The 2020 USA National Maryland Queen Natalie Salmon wrapped a blanket around the younger girls while everyone was getting staged for the photo. Sunday started at 8:30 a.m. and we arrived home at 7 p.m., but Vee immediately announced she wanted to do another pageant. She did confess her feet hurt after the 1st day’s practice, and I encouraged her to wear tennis shoes for the 2nd day’s rehearsal. During the show’s intermission, the girls were visibly tired and the pageant team brought drapes so they could sit down without getting their gowns dirty and chairs. The girls passed the time playing rhythmic hand clapping games and genuinely seemed to be loving the experience. Honestly, the weekend compared remarkably similar to me as military training. Perhaps that shared dedication to resilience is what created the bond and camaraderie.
I tried to tell Vee over and over all weekend, it’s not the gown or the face that wins the pageant. It’s the person. She has to be kind and courteous, polite and respectful all the time. She has to be powerfully confident. There are a dozen more terms too abstract for my 5 year old to understand like poised and graceful. All of these abstract ideas came together in Paris Courtney Titus, Kennedy Williams, Karter Jeannette Akinseye, Ariana Skylar Ruiz, Janelle-Victoria Nyamekye Abu, Joanne Mabel Ashun, Nyah Rose Quezada, Nylah Jackson, Aniyah Nelson, and so many more girls and ladies.
It was the most excited I’ve ever seen my daughter. Not even Christmas or her birthday compared to her enthusiasm for being a part of the pageant. And my hope that she would find positive role models was delivered in dozens. What an AMAZING weekend!
OKRs of Parenting: Raise a Child as a Democratic Asset
Objective: Raise an asset to global democracy
Key Results
Courage/Confidence – engage safely with mild fear, (iFly, ninja kids, pony riding – Starting Age 4), rock climbing, swimming
Citizenship – Eagle Scout (begin August, Age 5)
Concentration – Skeet Shooting at Prince George’s range (Age 11)
Bureaucracy – Civil Air Patrol (begin August, Age 12)
Critical Skills – foreign languages especially geo-politically important languages such as Chinese, Korean, Arabic, Russian and Farsi as well as world languages such as Spanish, French and English
Emotional Intelligence – not sure
Objectives are WHAT. They are significant, action oriented, they are inspiring.
Key Results are the HOW – that how we meet our objectives. Good key results are specific and time bound, aggressive, but realistic. They are measurable and they’re verifiable.
https://www.ted.com/talks/john_doerr_why_the_secret_to_success_is_setting_the_right_goals#t-437645
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqjkKjtbmMr0fWfEHf6iVAw

Pretending to be a flamingo bird because they always stand on one leg.
Coronavirus Decisions for a social 4yo in 2020
In March 2020, she didn’t seem to mind going to Wheaton or Patapsco Parks every afternoon to go walking with baba and nanai but as time wore on, it became obvious that her world of four people was too small for her.
It’s been a hard year.
Obviously, like everyone, we’ve been trying to make the best decisions for our family during the coronavirus chaos. We took our energetic and social 4yo out of preschool and all Prince George’s parks activities on March 5, 2020. Literally overnight, she was no longer in school everyday, no longer in gymnastics, dance, tae kwon do, soccer and we cancelled upcoming plans for swimming classes.
In the beginning, she didn’t seem to mind going to Wheaton or Patapsco Parks every afternoon to go walking with baba and nanai but as time wore on, it became obvious that her world of four people was too small for her.
For a time, even the pony riding class was cancelled by Montgomery County Parks Wheaton stables but when it reopened, we returned. We reasoned that outdoor activities were likely safer due to natural ventilation.
After months of asking to go to 6 Flags or other locations like that, we learned of a tae kwon do school near our home that included practice in a forested clearing across from their dojo building. We joined that school.
After some time, Prince George’s County parks advertised tennis classes. Since tennis is outside, we thought it might be a good option, but they failed to get enough students. I posted on Nextdoor looking for tennis and someone recommended JTCC. We checked it out. It’s not exactly outside. Six tennis courts are covered by something like a giant tent. It’s not sealed so some outside air gets in and it’s not climate controlled, but it’s at least dry when it rains. This seemed like a good option, so we tried it. She seems to love it.
Prince George’s County Parks program just recently posted indoor gymnastics beginning in March 2021. I asked my husband and he said we should wait until Grandma gets her vaccination. It’s a good idea. Gymnastics, obviously, is indoors.
Ice skating is indoors, but they do not allow instructors to contact students, so all students under age 6 must have a parent on the ice. The Wheaton indoor ice rink is huge and they only allow a handful of students per class.
I’ve been thinking a lot about Scouts because I think she’d love it. She’ll be eligible to join in August 2021. I just discovered Prince George’s Parks Program has a skeet range with classes starting at age 11. Shooting skeet is an outdoor activity, but of course, it will be another 6 years before she’s eligible. I wonder what our lives will look it in six years vis-à-vis the coronavirus. http://pgparks.com/1283/Trap-Skeet
Despite her young age, she had done surprisingly well with online school. She is 100% online this year in PreK. While dad feels frustrated keeping her focused on some days, there are days when she’s fascinated by what’s happening on her computer screen. Her education seems to have grown by leaps and bounds. Dad is a major factor since his work is property management and it gives him time to take her out to nearby parks during the school breaks. She gets to run in the sun and burn some energy, which is critical to her ability to be calm during class.
It’s been a hard year.
We want to keep our family safe, especially since grandma is in her 70s and our daughter has clearly suffered in 2020 from the lack of access to her peers. She constantly asks us to play with her. She wants to play LEGOs, board games, chess, tag, hide and seek. One day during the Christmas/New Year’s school break, I counted over 20 times she asked me to play with her while I was teleworking.
There will be no vaccine for 5yos in 2021. There’s hope by the time the 2021/2022 school year rolls around that 12yos and up will have a vaccine allowing high school students to return to a relatively normal experience attending school in a public location.
Our school has recommended that our daughter test to see if they can get state approval for her to skip kindergarten and start 1st grade in August 2021. Her English language skills according to IXL are in the second grade range. I guess she won’t be able to start normal school until 2022.
It’s been a hard year.

My husband, an ordinary Chinese citizen, started a vlog about his life in the USA
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqjkKjtbmMr0fWfEHf6iVAw
Poor Lao Beijing Baba life in USA
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqjkKjtbmMr0fWfEHf6iVAw

Food Diversity – Gluten free for everyone
Maybe what matters most eating a larger diversity of different foods to improve the microbiome.
Several months ago, our 4yo started complaining of tummy aches. As time went on they got worse and more frequent and we tried a number of options at home to remedy the situation. I thought maybe she had acid reflux so I tried to get her to sleep with a tallish pillow to elevate her. We tried to avoid orange juice and other acidic foods under the same premise.
Finally, she refused to play because of stomach pain so we went to urgent care. The doctor said it could be a gluten issue, so we cut all gluten and ignored the acidic food. Orange juice did not make it worse. Cutting speghettios and shells and cheese made it better.
Several more trips to doctors and a Celiac Disease test, she tested negative. But there was the indisputable fact that she felt better when she wasn’t eating as much gluten. Doctors stressed that if you are going to go gluten free, go all the way, but … Grandma Huang cooks homemade Chinese dumplings and noodle dishes from standard white flour and our daughter LOVES them. And she ate some. And nothing happened.
What we know about the microbiome is that a diversity, a broad range of different foods is best for our digestive systems. However, the industrial complex overtook American farming as well as all other types of manufacturing and now just like the original Ford which you could get in any color as long as it was black, our food diversity has been sharply curtailed.
With the mass production of wheat, we can have wheat-based pancakes for breakfast, wheat based sandwiches or hamburger buns or hotdog buns for lunch and wheat based breaded foods for dinner like chicken nuggets or fish sticks. Wheat based breakfast cereal. Wheat. Wheat. And more Wheat. Not that wheat is a bad grain, but I’ve begun to wonder if what helped my daughter’s stomach move on wasn’t so much the elimination of wheat or gluten as it was the increase in diversity of grains from adding lots of gluten free products to her diet. Gluten free products are made from all kinds of different cereals and grains. Maybe we should all add a little gluten free to our diets. Like the Gluten free Dr. Schar bagel slide I just ate. Delish.

37% of jobs in the USA could be do via telework
I used to commute to work by bike, metro, MARC, slugging, driving, Uber. Now I’m dreaming of a day when I can slough off commuting forever.

I fought the city of College Park vehemently to get a double wide driveway, which they refused, due to a 20 year old law that said no cars parked in front of homes. Drive ways are only allowed beside homes. The number of cars per person has nearly reached 1 to 1 in some areas of the United States.
https://www.energy.gov/eere/vehicles/fact-617-april-5-2010-changes-vehicles-capita-around-world
My neighborhood is packed so tightly with cars parked in the street that there remains only one lane down the middle. All streets in the Hollywood neighborhood of College Park are effectively one-way both ways.
In our case, we have a tiny little subcompact car I used to get to and from the office daily and a compact SUV we use for shopping or getting our daughter to Patapsco Park or Wheaton Regional Parks, two of our favorite haunts.
Thanks to COVID, I’m wondering if the constant growth of cars per capita might actually reverse itself. In addition to buying more and more cars, we are building more and and more lanes and there’s an extensive metro expansion planned to help move all these bodies into office buildings around the national capital region, but why?
Nearly 40% of the people who are going to work everyday can work from home. That number is almost certainly higher in the DC area. So why not save on the emissions? Why not stop expanding the highways? Why not stop buying so many cars? And running out of places to park them?
If I could be absolutely certain that I would never have to go to my office again, I would likely sell my car. We wouldn’t need to fight with the city about a double wide driveway. We could save on car insurance. And gas. A lot of gas.
Would 37% of American households sell one car? maybe not because many of those households probably have 2 people who can telework, so maybe only 20% of American households would sell their cars.
What would the morning commute look like for those who still have to drive if 20% of the cars disappeared? What would our air quality look like? I’ve been watching my daily report of Good, Good and Good this year. Clean, clear air is NICE!
And what would College Park look like if 20% of the cars didn’t have to be parked in the streets because they no longer existed?
At the beginning of this year, we were talking about which SUV we would buy when replaced the subcompact car. Just 8 months later, I’m thinking of getting rid of it for good. COVID dreaming
https://www.bls.gov/opub/mlr/2020/article/ability-to-work-from-home.htm
Electrical Safety
New electrical options like USB ports on outlets, USB small electrics, LED lights and solar powered items are making our homes safer.
With a 4yo around the house, I worry a lot about electrocution. Classic electrical outlets have a fundamental design flaw in which if anyone or thing were to touch both of the prongs when they were halfway into the outlet, it could go horribly wrong.
Furthermore, when I was working for USACE, DisastersRUs, I did a lot of reading about what goes horribly wrong during floods and other water related disasters like storm surge. As it turns out, good Samaritans who try to help people by slogging around in the waters, can and sometimes do get electrocuted by electrical currents from nearby houses.
And, of course, with traditional electrical home systems, there has been the possibility of home fires due to electrical shorts. Home electrical fires account for an estimated 51,000 fires each year, nearly than 500 deaths, more than 1,400 injuries, and $1.3 billion in property damage. Electrical distribution systems are the third leading cause of home structure fires.
https://www.esfi.org/resource/home-electrical-fires-184#
Electricity is scary. Especially with kids who don’t understand the risks. So as my daughter and I were stringing blinking Christmas lights on the trees, playground toys and fence in the backyard, I was happy the lights were solar powered. With a full days’ sunlight, they are colorful, but by morning, they are dim and if it rains all day, they hardly come on at night. I’m not an electrical engineer, but I assume the 4″ x 4″ solar panel connected to each strand wouldn’t be able to collect enough power to kill me or my daughter.
https://www.bobvila.com/articles/best-string-lights/
One of the advantages to modern Christmas lights is they are usually LED, especially the solar powered version, so , a 100-count string of incandescent mini lights runs at 40 watts, while a 70 count of 5mm Wide Angle LEDs is approximately 4.8 watts total.
https://www.christmaslightsetc.com/pages/how-much-power.htm
Offhand it would seem that a shock of 10,000 volts would be more deadly than 100 volts. But this is not so! Individuals have been electrocuted by appliances using ordinary house currents of 110 volts and by electrical apparatus in industry using as little as 42 volts direct current. The real measure of shock’s intensity lies in the amount of current (amperes) forced though the body, and not the voltage. Any electrical device used on a house wiring circuit can, under certain conditions, transmit a fatal current.
https://www.asc.ohio-state.edu/physics/p616/safety/fatal_current.html
I can’t even find a reference for how much amps in a string of LED Christmas lights but it’s in the range of 3 volts. Literally like nothing. A single lemon produces about 7/10 of a volt of electricity. If you connected two lemons together, you can power an inexpensive digital watch (uses about 1.5 volts). That’s funny, so the solar powered Christmas lights my 4yo was stringing up have about as much electricity as 4 lemons.
http://www.reachoutmichigan.org/funexperiments/agesubject/lessons/energy/lemon.html
I love these electric outlets and we have had them installed throughout both our houses. They have USB ports on either side of the outlet. We have also installed a couple of outlets that have just a set of 4 USB ports and no classic outlets at all. So many new electrical devices from clocks to smart speakers, children’s night lights and other small electrics are arriving with USB cables that an increasing number of devices don’t need the standard pronged outlet.
What I love about USB ports both in the home and in the car is that I feel pretty comfortable letting my 4yo plug in the cable for her iPad. According to the Apple website, “It is totally safe. A Lightning Cable is like a powered USB. In the worst case (an iPad), it’s 5 V (and 12 W), far from enough for damaging your children.”
https://apple.stackexchange.com/questions/233673/is-the-lightning-connector-safe-for-my-children
I like the new electrical options because I think they are safer for children, safer in floods and less likely to be responsible for home fires. In short, I think in the future, we’ll see less human fatalities related to electricity. I’m hopeful. But what I’d love to see is legislation requiring the safer USB ports in new home construction and requiring small electrical devices to have USB cables if it can sufficiently power them.

PJ Generation
Things that are changing: Rural to Urban Migration
Up to 40% could telework fulltime
More neighborly
More Walking, Fitness, Less Car, Gas & Pollution?
Death of the Office Building
Death of the Dry Cleaners and Business Suits
Increased Productivity, More Energy Focused on Work/Family, Less Driving
Possible Rise in Domestic Violence
Increased Learning Curve for Middle Class Kids
More Home Office, Home Improvement, IOT and More Screen Time
More eCommerce
We had a great opportunity to chat with Dror Shaked of Wix this week and asked him what the future of digital publishing holds. He said his latest public presentation was titled the pajama era. I started thinking what does that really mean across the social spectrum?
Urban to Rural Migration
For a dozen generations or more, the world’s population has been moving from rural to urban. The PJ Generation may reverse that. A new poll shows that nearly 40% of urbanites are considering fleeing the city as the coronavirus pandemic rages on. https://www.millersd.org/news/article/people-are-on-the-move-to-rural-251-415/ In the simple map above lies a stark spatial imbalance: half the people in the world cram into just 1 percent of the Earth’s surface. https://www.businessinsider.com/maps-show-worlds-insane-population-concentration-cities-2016-1
Historically, rural poor move to concentrated areas of population to find better employment. This includes the American farmer and the Chinese factory girls. Even in Egypt, where some 90+ percent of the population lives in that nation’s capital.
One of the many socio-economic elements that the rural to urban migration has had around the world is a shockingly high real estate cost in areas of concentration like Tokyo, Shanghai, London, San Francisco, Vancouver and DC. Obviously, the lure of cheap and spacious housing is attractive, but historically, rural areas with low cost housing had no industrial base, and thus, no substantive income opportunities.
As much as 40% of the workforce could telework fulltime
COVID-19 may yet do what years of advocacy have failed to: Make telework a benefit available to more than a relative handful of U.S. workers. Only 7% of civilian workers in the United States, or roughly 9.8 million of the nation’s approximately 140 million civilian workers, have access to a “flexible workplace” benefit, or telework, according to the 2019 National Compensation Survey (NCS) from the federal Bureau of Labor Statistics. And those workers who have access to it are largely managers, other white-collar professionals and the highly paid. (“Civilian workers” refers to private industry workers and state and local government workers combined.) https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2020/03/20/before-the-coronavirus-telework-was-an-optional-benefit-mostly-for-the-affluent-few/
However, according to a Bureau of Labor Statistics report, “The authors find that 37 percent of U.S. jobs can be performed entirely at home—a number that greatly exceeds any recent estimate of how many workers telecommute on an average day. According to the 2018 American Time Use Survey, ‘less than a quarter of all full-time workers work from home on an average day, and even those workers typically spend well less than half of their working hours at home.'” https://www.bls.gov/opub/mlr/2020/beyond-bls/the-number-of-people-who-can-telework-is-higher-than-was-estimated.htm
We May See More of Our Neighbors
I’m scratching my brain trying to remember which book I read in grad school talked about the elimination of the neighborhood as a result of women joining the work force. It might have been one of those Bowling Alone dystopian view books. I read Turkle’s Alone Together and wasn’t impressed. I was more impressed by Clay Shirky Here Comes Everybody, Cognitive Surplus and Don Tapscott’s Growing Up Digital because they focused on how technology was remaking our social connections based on passions and shared interests. This seemed more compelling to me than just hanging out with whoever happened to be born in a geographically co-located residence.
But the dystopian authors bemoaned the time lost in face to face interactions. This summer and fall, I’ve seen a LOT of my neighbors. We are all walking circles around the same blocks and hanging out with kids and dogs at the same neighborhood parks. I’m learning names of neighbors and kids and dogs. This is the kind of community that was apparently lost when women joined the work force because the book whose name I can’t recall talked about how housewives used to spend time together watching kids, sharing recipes, pantry items, etc.
So work from home, some 40-ish percent who may also be moving to rural areas for cheaper, more spacious housing could change the national landscape, including house prices and social fabric, allowing for more awareness of neighbor’s names and lives.
More Walking, Fitness, Less Car, Gas & Pollution?
For me and from what I hear, many of my coworkers, often walk around the neighborhood while on teleconference discussions. I do it mainly so I can resist the temptation to read that email that just popped up. I find I remain more deeply engaged in telephonic conversations or Google Meets if I’m not sitting at a computer. And like many of my peers, I’ve become an obedient slave to my smart watch that complains if I sit too long, warns me that I haven’t yet walked as many steps as I had yesterday at this time and I need 30 minutes of elevated heart rate, so I should get moving. Walking around the neighborhood while teleworking means I see and wave at more neighbors, their kids and dogs.
The PJ Generation almost certainly means a sharp reduction in gas use and car mileage, cleaner air and less pollution. It means less cafeteria food. It might even mean a reduction in our nation’s growing waist lines. My iWatch often complained at me while I was driving home from the Pentagon that I’d been stationary for too long, but I couldn’t very well get up and walk around while stuck in beltway traffic.
Death of the Office Building
And corporations and local, state and federal governments don’t need huge buildings. We don’t need all those wider highways.
Death of the Dry Cleaners and Business Suits
Obviously, less suits, which means the decline of the dry cleaner and Ann Taylor, the only real women’s professional suit maker. Yesterday, Bloomberg featured an article: Work from Home Crushes Dry Cleaners. If you want to know the state of the return to office, take a look at U.S. dry cleaners. 1 in 6 have closed or gone bankrupt as more people work in their sweatpants instead of freshly pressed dress slacks.
https://www.bloomberg.com/news/videos/2020-11-25/work-from-home-crushes-u-s-dry-cleaners-video
Of course, Zuckerberg and Bezos had already changed the nation’s social expectations of the dress code for the smartest guys (and gals) in the room. So, Americans go even more casual that we always were. I think this is great. Since I was a kid in a Catholic Church, I hated the pageantry and wealth displayed in our clothes.
So we down-cost our homes and dress down our clothes. Get out and see our neighbors. What else?
Increased Productivity, More Energy Focused on Work/Family, Less Driving
I think the workplace is going to gain a significant boost in productivity. Some reports have already talked about this. Since people aren’t spending an average of an hour each way in traffic, they have more energy to focus on work and home. There has been some discussion about the lack of work/life balance because work never ends, but I find that something like a split shift works well for our household. I hit the computer as soon as I wake up, sometimes as early at 5:30, when had I been driving to the Pentagon, I would have wasted time, showering, suiting up and driving. I work until my daughter takes a break from her teleschool and we do something together – eat lunch, LEGOs, tennis, read a book. Then back to work until she’s finished with school. Another break until she goes to tae kwon do or pony riding class or when she hits the bath. Then just before bed, I hit the computer again.
The previous work day was 8 hours at the office, 1 hour of lunchbreak that I couldn’t share with my family or neighbors and at least an hour each way driving, sometimes more. Even if work infringes a bit outside of the 8 hours required, I should still get more family time. After all, the total work day used to require 12 hours outside the house.
Possible Rise in Domestic Violence
One possibly negative impact of all the PJ Generation is domestic violence. https://www.webmd.com/lung/news/20200818/radiology-study-suggests-horrifying-rise-in-domestic-violence-during-pandemic#1
For kids in healthy families, more time with parents could help increase their learning curves. However, some kids, myself included, saw school as an escape from an uncomfortable home life. We’re already seeing an increase in the income gap as a result of COVID. The PJ Generation might see a greater separation between low and upper middle income which is exasperated by triumvirate of income, mental and physical wellness, and substance abuse. It’s a well know and understood element of life for people struggling with debilitating illnesses like depression and PTSD that “self medication” is often a logical extension of the mental misery. Domestic violence is often related to alcohol or other substance consumption. Additionally, mental and physical illnesses can interfere with a person’s income generating capabilities. As a result the 3 elements interact together in a terrible way to bring people and families down.
One possibility is that people who suffer might be able to find gainful online employment and/or education that they would never have been able to engage in due to their illness. But another possibility is this cohort falls further away from the social fabric.
Increased Learning Curve for Middle Class Kids
For my daughter, she loves having all 3 adults in the house with her – grandma, dad and mom. And it allows us to tag team with her insatiable need for attention that is exhausting for any one person. So, for the middle class, I think kids will benefit from the PJ generation.
More Home Office, Home Improvement, IOT and More Screen Time
More time at home means more IOT. More voice interactive speakers, TVs, lights and thermostats. More smart homes and more home offices. We’ve already seen a sharp uptick in home improvement during COVID. Americans spent over $6B more dollars this year than previously on home improvement at Home Depot alone. https://thehill.com/policy/finance/526305-home-depot-sales-surge-as-americans-spend-on-home-improvement-amid-covid-19
We’ll probably see an increase in screen time. “Zoom meetings. Distance learning. Online shopping. The coronavirus pandemic has caused us to spend more hours than ever facing a screen. While that allows us to carry on many of our daily activities safely, it may also bring with it some concerns.” https://www.rivertowns.net/news/education/6749222-Screen-time-increases-with-pandemic-adjustments
More eCommerce
During the first two quarters of 2020, stores like Ulta, Macy’s and Kohl’s experienced dramatic spikes in their ecommerce revenue, rising roughly 200%, 53% and 60% respectively. The International Council of Shopping Centers predicts a 25% rise in ecommerce sales in 2020. https://insights.digitalmediasolutions.com/news/ecommerce-transactions-rising




